Author Archives: Lauri Rottmayer

About Lauri Rottmayer

I'm a speaker and writer and social media queen. Married to my best friend for 38 years, we have two amazing men children, two gorgeous daughters-in-love, a precious glambaby, and a cute boy dog, Frankie Bolwahnn.

Book Review: Hotel Laguna by Nicola Harrison

I got an early copy of Hotel Laguna and I couldn’t put it down!

Nicola Harrison, one of my very favorite authors, always nails the balance of historical detail and page-turning plot, and this book is no exception. The characters are so well-developed and you can’t help but root for them.

I highly recommend this book to anyone who loves historical fiction, or just a good story.

Book Review: Places We’ve Never Been by Kasie West

Norah and Skyler were best friends, but they drifted apart when Skyler’s family moved away. Four years later, their moms surprise them with a road trip across the western United States. Norah is excited to reconnect with Skyler, but he seems distant and unfriendly. It turns out that Skyler is dealing with some personal issues, but with the help of Norah and his family, he starts to open up. Along the way, Norah and Skyler also rekindle their friendship and maybe even something more.

Places We’ve Never Been is a sweet and heartwarming story about friendship, family, and first love. It’s the perfect book for fans of Kasie West and anyone who loves a good summer road trip. I really enjoy Kasie West’s writing!

The Coldest Winter I Ever Spent – Book Review

I just finished Ann Jacobus’s second book, The Coldest Winter I Ever Spent, and I’d give it more than five stars if I could.

Author: Ann Jacobus

The topic matter is tough – suicide, alcoholism, cancer, death – but I truly love the way Ann writes and that kept me going until I was well and truly hooked.

Del is 18 and lives with her Aunt Fran in San Francisco. I’m glad I’ve been to San Francisco because I could picture every scene so easily. If you haven’t visited, it won’t matter because you will be able to see it clearly with your mind’s eye as you read.

As a recovering alcoholic who has attempted suicide, Del is trying to get her life on track, volunteering at the suicide prevention hotline, and preparing to enter college. Del’s mom has completed suicide and her dad has been moving around the world with his work. Del lived with him for awhile in London but it’s gloomy weather didn’t help her mental health challenges which is how she came to live with her aunt.

There’s a boy she likes who doesn’t appear to feel the same and then her aunt has a recurrence of cancer. Del tries to hold it together and it’s a struggle. You will love how she keeps trying even though it doesn’t go perfectly. You will be rooting for her. The poems in the book that were written by Aunt Fran add to how talented this author is.

I sat with my own mom in her finally month and I have never really been able to verbalize how incredibly hard but amazing the experience was. You will find that explained well in this book.

This book is really great and I can’t recommend it more. I’m super excited to see what this author writes next.

Oh My Aching Back!

My back is sooo sore. Am I the victim of a new year/new me exercise program? I am not. I am a victim of my weighted blanket.

I’ve been sleeping with a 20 pound weighted blanket for around 2 years now. I wasn’t able to find a twin size so I have a double size. David doesn’t like sleeping under it so I try and keep it on my side of the bed and when I make the bed, it looks all lumpy.

The other day, I had a brilliant idea! I would double the blanket. Surely if 20 pounds is good, 40 would be better. Um, no. Absolutely, positively, no. I woke up yesterday and my hips and back were so sore. I went ahead and worked out which may have been a mistake because I kept getting sorer as the day wore on.

I hate taking pills. We usually have ibuprofen in the house that David will take sometimes when he’s done a heavy task outside. I broke down and started looking for it. There. Is. No. Ibuprofen. In. This. House.

There is, however, a ginormous bottle of Tylenol that is left over from my broken ankle (2018) and mostly full. I’ve taken it twice. I’ve used heat, ice, and stretching. My back is really, really sore.

The first five rules for being able to work out as you age are:

I’m super careful when I’m working out to use proper form and to be cautious when I’m hiking and doing things on an uneven surface. Who knew that a weighted blanket could do me in? My back feels like it did when I popped my SI joint deadlifting. At least my hips don’t hurt as much today.

Although I didn’t just start a workout program as I workout every day, this is really getting in the middle of what I want to do in life and I hate it. This is a big reminder why I want to stay healthy and flexible as I age. I don’t ever want to have to make a decision on which bathroom to use because the wall is closer to me and I can use it to pull myself up. I never want to need help to get out of the couch or off the floor.

I’m going to do these stretches every couple of hours. They really do help. And I’m going to put the weighted blanket away. Weaponized sleeping isn’t for me. LOL!

It’s Been A Hell of a Year, I’m Glad We Made It Out

I’m not sure about you but I am SO happy that 2022 is over. It ranks right up there as one of my least favorite years in life.

I struggled through real estate for another year. Was it a mistake? Maybe? I really loved my YouTube channel and other socials. I really loved the clients that came to me through my socials. But I really hated that actual business of real estate. It was soul sucking. I ended up at two more brokerages bringing me through a total of four in the little over two years I had my license. It wasn’t them it was me.

I can’t even begin to tell you how relieved I was to sign the back of my license to inactivate it. Whew! Glad I tried it but oh so glad it’s over.

I also launched my online marshmallow business in October. After working on the techniques, flavors, etc. for over a year, the state of Arkansas changed their food laws and I was finally able to sell the marshmallows in an online shop. It was fun. Sort of. While I love making marshmallows, I didn’t enjoy the actual business of selling them. I learned that I’d rather gift marshmallows than sell them.

Again, one more thing I’m glad I tried but am oh so happy it’s over.

So now what? 2023 is here and my life is wide open for new opportunities. I have a couple of things I’m working on. Picking up blogging again is one of them.

January is World Carnivore Month and I’m fully onboard with that. I have been a carnivore for several years now. The marshmallows totally got in the way of that because I felt like I couldn’t sell something I hadn’t tasted. I’m feeling so much better to have the sugar out of my system!

With Fe the Fluffy

It’s been fun to learn how to take care of the cows and the chickens. Who’d have ever guessed those words would come out of my fingers?!?! I actually got to hold my fluffy chicken, Fe. A couple of times! Someday, I’m going to hold Frannie, too, but she’s a swift complainer. LOL! I haven’t caught her yet.

I look forward to what this year holds for me and am excited about the future. I wish you a terrific year, too!

Dirty Laundry – Book Review

This was a good book with unexpected twists and turns! I couldn’t put it down.

The story takes place in a small village in Ireland. Ciara is the perfect Instagram influencer and she wears her crown proudly among their social circle. She rules it. Her best friend is Mishti, a meek Indian woman who is more of a sounding board for Ciara than anything. Lauren is the next door neighbor who has lived in the village her whole life and been ridiculed by the girls. As an adult she still encounters this but wraps her life around her family.

When Ciara winds up dead, you will think someone else did it. I loved that part because I couldn’t have guessed. Good book!

With Love From Wish & Company – Book Review

I have no idea why it took me so long to read this book because I absolutely loved it. It was such a good story, I guess I didn’t want it to end.

Marnie is a gift buyer. She offers this service for wealthy people who are too busy or who don’t know what to gift the people in her life. For years she has been trying to buy the building that once housed her grandfather’s shoe store. It has been burned by a fire and, even though she is family, her uncle will not sell it to her and it goes up for auction.

In the process of being so busy trying to figure out how she can come up with enough money to purchase the building, gifts for a wealthy client’s wife and mistress are accidentally given to the wrong person. Marnie also falls in love with the client’s son which presents another whole problem.

I loved this story, how the problems were solved, and how the book ended. I highly recommend!

How You Grow Wings – Book Review

Since living in West Africa, I have found some of my favorite reads to be by authors from the region. This was a tough but good book to read.

The story of two very different sisters. The older sister, Cheta, is tough and outspoken, while Zam, the younger sister, is more meek and preferred by her mother. Their mother is very domineering and abusive. Zam tries to stay under the radar where her mom and sister are involved. Dad is just there. He stays uninvolved and is probably beaten down by the mother. Ultimately, Zam has the good fortune to move in with her wealthy aunt and her family. Of course this causes further conflict between the girls.

The story is rough but good and I look forward to being able to read this author’s next book.

Such Big Dreams – Book Review

I enjoyed this debut novel about a former street child, Rakhi, who has grown up. While she holds a job in the office of a social justice law firm, her boss takes every moment to let her know how “less than” she is. But Rahki, who still lives in a large slum, is strong and never gives up. She has hopes of a better life in the hotel industry.

Rakhi is underestimated and despite having to jump through all kinds of hoops, she never gives up. This was a good book and I look forward to reading another from this author.